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September 14 Sex before marriage, ghost or angelSex is greatly involved in marriage. Women could keep away from it until they get married, while men almost consider their wives are virgins. After the sex liberation, this ideal situation has gone with the wind. But with the open mind for sex, several social and moral problems emerged.
Sex is the most basic impulse, especially in the nature. Animals pass gene and generate descendants. The sexual relation is occurred more randomly and frequently. They might not have sex before they are mature in sex. The difference lies between human and animal is ration. Nowadays human is immersed in a media world, therefore their behavior is deeply affected by the TV and Internet. Seduced by modern maid and exciting body in screen, many youth would imagine the scene day and night. Gradually they want to taste the forbidden apple.
Many couples take sex as an important issue during their daily live. If they have experienced it before marriage, both of them will be more certain about their relationship. Love of course is a basic factor, while sex concerns a life long time. There are increasing divorces as the result of the suffering of sex, such ED for men or indifference for sex. In the condition of safety, sex before marriage is considerable.
Another advantage of before marriage sex is to gain experience in making love. No matter men or women will be nerves for their first sex. They must conquer several barriers. He might withdraw or she would refuse. It’s heard that a wife charged the man that, he treated her violently in the bed after the wedding, but the husband defended that he was just normally having sex. The new-wedded couples are anxious rather than eager to having sex. If they have some experience they can understand each other and completely enjoy the fun of sex.
On the other hand, such a behavior brings about pain and bother. The use of condom is effective to protect everyone from getting stuck in annoyance. The first problem is early pregnant. In summer vacation the hospital would receive many young ladies for abortion. Some are accompanied by their boyfriend, but some are single. It’s a question of responsibility. Who ought to take it? The maid cared nothing while having sex and the guy could bear no burden of the child. Finally they attribute it to the distortion of society.
Secondly, it causes some ailments to spread faster and wider. Sex before marriage must lead to a fact that one has many sexual partners. No one will send his or her partner to check their health before having sex. To the great misfortune, he or she has been infected, so that the bacteria and virus will likely be widespread. This is a catastrophe of human if the ailments are out of control. AIDS is a challenge in face of us. It sound like a ghost preventing human from indulging in sexual pleasure.
All of these show a moral trap. In past sex is the most sacred thing between human. Things have been changed in recent hundred years. Men want to have sex with every woman, but want every woman he met is virgin. As a glass he met and break, she is always the sufferer. The hymen rebuilding operation is well appealing. But the royalty of marriage is impossibly rebuilt. |
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